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36 Questions for Couples to Grow Closer
An original set of 36 prompts, moving from everyday observations to more personal sharing. This is not the original research questionnaire and does not promise love.
Answer in order, taking turns; pause or skip whenever you like.
How to play
- Start at the first question and take turns answering.
- Work through the questions in order; pause or skip anything you do not want to discuss.
- You can stop whenever you like. There is no promised outcome or score.
What is a small thing you enjoyed noticing today?
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All 36 questions
Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.
Questions 1–20
What is a small thing you enjoyed noticing today?
Which place nearby feels welcoming to you?
What do you like doing when nobody is waiting for the result?
Which ordinary object would help introduce you to someone new?
What is an interest you would enjoy explaining slowly?
Which routine makes an unfamiliar day feel more manageable?
What do you enjoy about the way you spend time alone?
Which recent choice felt particularly like your own?
What small experience would you like to share with me this month?
Which detail in a room helps you relax?
What is a question you enjoy being asked about your life?
Which part of this conversation has felt easiest to answer?
What is something people often misunderstand about how you spend your energy?
Which expectation of yourself are you trying to reconsider?
What kind of encouragement helps when you feel inexperienced?
When do you feel most comfortable admitting uncertainty?
Which responsibility has taught you something about your limits?
What is a preference you used to hide but now accept?
Which memory helps explain why a small thing matters to you?
What does feeling included in a decision look like?
Questions 21–36
Which personal change do you hope others will notice with time?
What helps you hear a different opinion without feeling dismissed?
Which part of your life deserves more gentleness from you?
What have you learned about yourself from answering these questions?
What is something I have said tonight that you would like to understand more deeply?
Which ordinary moment between us has made you feel accepted?
How can I show interest without making you feel examined?
What would you like us to do when one person needs more time to answer?
Which difference between us could become a source of curiosity?
What kind of support would you welcome during a week when you feel less capable?
What do you hope we will not rush as we get to know each other better?
Which small act could make our next conversation feel safer to begin?
What is something you appreciate about how I have listened today?
Which answer would you like us to return to another evening?
What would you like to protect about your own life as our connection grows?
What is one realistic way we can carry this attention into an ordinary day?
A little permission to take it slowly.
Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.