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Questions 1–20

  1. The person who chooses the film should also make the snacks. — Agree or Disagree

  2. Toilet paper should go OVER, not under — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  3. A grocery-store date counts as a real date. — Agree or Disagree

  4. Breakfast for dinner is superior to breakfast for breakfast — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  5. Every couple deserves one deliberately terrible shared playlist. — Agree or Disagree

  6. Couples should never stop dating each other — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  7. Matching mugs are more romantic than matching outfits. — Agree or Disagree

  8. Social media has made relationships harder — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  9. A good apology should never contain a weather report about how tired you were. — Agree or Disagree

  10. A good relationship doesn't need constant communication — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  11. Planning the next holiday is part of the current holiday. — Agree or Disagree

  12. It's fine to keep some secrets from your partner — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  13. The last dumpling should go to whoever cooked. — Agree or Disagree

  14. The best relationships start as friendships — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  15. A sofa blanket needs no assigned owner. — Agree or Disagree

  16. Breakfast food is the best food, at any hour — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  17. An ordinary Tuesday is the best day for a surprise celebration. — Agree or Disagree

  18. Sleeping in separate beds can save a relationship — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  19. Couples should be allowed to give shared plants very dramatic names. — Agree or Disagree

  20. Being on time is a form of respect — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

Questions 21–40

  1. Arriving early to a date is secretly extra date time. — Agree or Disagree

  2. Weddings are mostly for the guests — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  3. A shared calendar can be a romantic object. — Agree or Disagree

  4. Small talk is genuinely useful — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  5. The best holiday souvenir is something you can use on a weekday. — Agree or Disagree

  6. Working from home is worse for most people — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  7. An inside joke is better when neither person remembers how it started. — Agree or Disagree

  8. You should never lend money to friends — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  9. Breakfast for dinner should be a weekly tradition. — Agree or Disagree

  10. Most people are bad at giving gifts — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  11. Reading silently together counts as quality time. — Agree or Disagree

  12. Museums are better alone than with company — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  13. A perfectly planned date needs a little room to go wrong. — Agree or Disagree

  14. Buffets are a mistake — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  15. Couples should have a formal ceremony for throwing out an old mattress. — Agree or Disagree

  16. New Year's Eve is the worst night of the year — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  17. A walk without a destination is better than a walk with a step target. — Agree or Disagree

  18. The book is not always better — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  19. The best seat at a restaurant is the one where you can people-watch together. — Agree or Disagree

  20. Nobody needs more than three pairs of shoes — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

Questions 41–53

  1. A handwritten shopping list has more personality than a digital one. — Agree or Disagree

  2. It's fine to reply to a message three days later — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  3. The designated playlist chooser should accept requests without complaint. — Agree or Disagree

  4. Most restaurants are worse than cooking at home — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  5. The first rainy day of autumn deserves its own couple holiday. — Agree or Disagree

  6. Photos ruin the moment more than they preserve it — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  7. A picnic indoors is still a picnic. — Agree or Disagree

  8. Everyone secretly wants to be told what to do — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  9. One slightly ugly object makes a home feel more lovable. — Agree or Disagree

  10. Nostalgia does more harm than good — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  11. A shared recipe deserves a name even if you invented nothing. — Agree or Disagree

  12. You can tell everything about someone from how they treat waiters — Agree 👍 or Disagree 👎

  13. The best date-night ending is already knowing when the next one is. — Agree or Disagree

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