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How Well Do You Know Me? Questions for Couples

Guess your partner's answer before the reveal. Favorite things, habits and little memories leave plenty of room to be surprised.

Guess your partner's answer before they tell you, then swap.

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  1. Read the prompt together and choose whose answer to guess.
  2. Guess before your partner shares an answer aloud.
  3. Hear the story behind the answer and swap roles.
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Questions 1–20
  1. Which room would I tidy first before a friend visits?

  2. What's my biggest pet peeve?

  3. What would I notice first in an unfamiliar hotel room?

  4. What's my most-played song right now?

  5. Which seat would I pick in an otherwise empty train carriage?

  6. What's my love language?

  7. What kind of background sound helps me concentrate?

  8. What's the first thing I do when I wake up?

  9. Which household task do I secretly find satisfying?

  10. What's my order at my favorite restaurant?

  11. What would I pack even for a one-night trip?

  12. What's my proudest achievement?

  13. Which weather forecast would make me change my plans?

  14. What's a weird habit I have that I think nobody notices?

  15. What do I usually do with a new notebook's first page?

  16. What date did we first meet?

  17. Which food texture am I most likely to avoid?

  18. What did I order on that first date?

  19. What would I reach for first on a shared breakfast tray?

  20. What was I wearing the first time you saw me?

Questions 21–40
  1. How would I spend the gap between arriving early and an appointment?

  2. Who said 'I love you' first, and where were we?

  3. Which small item am I most likely to repair rather than replace?

  4. What was our first argument about?

  5. What do I usually do after finishing a great book?

  6. What was the first gift we exchanged?

  7. Which phone notification am I quickest to open?

  8. What did my family say when they met you?

  9. What would I want within reach during a long journey?

  10. What song was playing the first time we danced?

  11. Which part of a museum would hold my attention longest?

  12. What was the first meal we cooked together?

  13. What kind of compliment makes me look shy?

  14. What's the longest we've gone without seeing each other?

  15. How can you tell I am enjoying a conversation with someone new?

  16. Which restaurant have we been to most?

  17. Which step of getting ready always takes me longer than expected?

  18. What's the most we've ever spent in one day together?

  19. What do I do when a restaurant gets my order slightly wrong?

  20. What was the first thing we hung on a wall?

Questions 41–60
  1. Which object would I lend readily, and which would I hesitate to lend?

  2. What's the furthest we've travelled together?

  3. What is my preferred temperature for a bedroom?

  4. Which of my friends did you meet first?

  5. Which small sound interrupts my concentration most easily?

  6. What's the biggest decision we've made together?

  7. What would I buy first if we had to furnish a completely empty room?

  8. Which anniversary have we celebrated best?

  9. Which item do I keep using even though it looks worn out?

  10. What was the last thing we argued about?

  11. What would I put in the smallest pocket of a travel bag?

  12. What's the first thing we bought for our home?

  13. Which kind of view would make me pause a walk?

  14. What's the strangest place we've fallen asleep together?

  15. What do I usually check before clicking buy?

  16. What would you say is officially 'our song'?

  17. How do I decide whether to keep a greeting card?

  18. What's the first promise we made each other?

  19. What do I prefer to do while waiting for food to cook?

  20. What's my biggest fear?

Questions 61–80
  1. Which everyday decision do I like making in advance?

  2. What was my first job?

  3. Which chore am I most likely to postpone until morning?

  4. Who was my childhood best friend?

  5. What is my usual reaction to an unexpected free afternoon?

  6. What's my dream vacation destination?

  7. How do I show that I need a conversation to slow down?

  8. What's my most listened-to artist on Spotify?

  9. Which part of a celebration matters most to me?

  10. What's the one food I absolutely cannot stand?

  11. What would I choose to grow in one windowsill pot?

  12. Who in my family am I closest to?

  13. Which item in a café would I be tempted to photograph?

  14. What's the one thing I'd save if our house was on fire?

  15. What kind of reminder actually helps me remember something?

  16. What's my biggest insecurity?

  17. Which item would I rescue from an overfilled suitcase?

  18. What's my most-used emoji?

  19. What do I usually do first after a long video meeting?

  20. What's the first thing I do when I get home?

Questions 81–100
  1. What do I want someone to say when I am learning a new skill?

  2. What side of the bed do I sleep on?

  3. Which familiar route could I describe without looking at a map?

  4. How long do I actually take in the shower?

  5. What would make me decide to leave a noisy event early?

  6. What's my go-to order on a night out?

  7. Which errand would I volunteer to do for a friend?

  8. What's the first app I open in the morning?

  9. What small luxury would I add to an otherwise ordinary weekday?

  10. What's my usual bedtime, really?

  11. Which smell takes me back to a particular place?

  12. What do I always have in my bag?

  13. What would I choose for the cover of a photo album?

  14. What chore do I do without being asked?

  15. Which kitchen tool would I miss most if it disappeared?

  16. What do I eat when there's nothing in the house?

  17. What would I do with a gift I like but cannot use?

  18. What's my usual weekend routine?

  19. Which part of a group trip would I naturally organize?

  20. What do I listen to in the car?

Questions 101–120
  1. How would I react to finding a handwritten note in my coat?

  2. What do I do when I'm bored?

  3. Which song would I skip even if everyone else loved it?

  4. How do I fold, or not fold, laundry?

  5. What type of question makes me start telling a long story?

  6. What do I always say when I'm annoyed but pretending not to be?

  7. Which activity do I enjoy more once I have actually started?

  8. What's the first thing I notice walking into a room?

  9. What do I prefer to finish before taking a proper break?

  10. What's my usual excuse for being late?

  11. Which little tradition from my childhood would I keep?

  12. What's my shopping habit, list or wander?

  13. What would I put on a sandwich if I had to use only three fillings?

  14. What's the thing I say I'll do tomorrow, every day?

  15. What do I do when I cannot remember someone's name?

  16. What do I always order at the cinema?

  17. Which object would I choose to explain my job without words?

  18. What's the one thing about my daily routine you'd change?

  19. What is the easiest way to get me interested in a new hobby?

  20. What am I most insecure about?

Questions 121–140
  1. Which part of shopping do I enjoy least?

  2. What's the last thing I searched on my phone?

  3. What would I choose to watch while folding laundry?

  4. What's the one chore I hate the most?

  5. How do I decide when a day has been productive enough?

  6. Who was my first crush?

  7. Which social invitation would I accept at the last minute?

  8. What would I choose: sleep in or wake up early?

  9. What would I ask a local person in a city I had never visited?

  10. What's my astrology sign?

  11. Which kind of help do I find hardest to ask for?

  12. What's my most controversial opinion?

  13. What would I want after a day spent speaking to lots of people?

  14. What do I worry about when I can't sleep?

  15. Which clothing item do I save for a particular mood?

  16. What am I proudest of that I never mention?

  17. What do I usually do when a plan falls through?

  18. What's the fastest way to hurt my feelings?

  19. Which small achievement do I tend to underplay?

  20. What am I most likely to lie about?

Questions 141–160
  1. What would make me want to return to the same holiday place?

  2. What would I never forgive?

  3. Which ingredient would I notice missing from a familiar meal?

  4. What am I hardest on myself about?

  5. What would I want written on a sign at the end of a difficult week?

  6. What makes me feel genuinely safe?

  7. How do I react when someone offers me the last piece of dessert?

  8. What's the thing I'd change about my life?

  9. Which of my possessions would I struggle to describe to a lost-property office?

  10. What do I pretend not to care about?

  11. What would I choose as the opening photo in a slideshow about my year?

  12. How do I behave when I feel left out?

  13. Which part of a new place makes me feel settled quickest?

  14. What do I find hardest to ask for?

  15. What is my preferred way to learn the rules of a game?

  16. What do I think about when I go quiet?

  17. Which responsibility do I take seriously even when nobody notices?

  18. What's a belief of mine I'd defend to the end?

  19. What kind of surprise would I rather have a little warning about?

  20. What would I want to be remembered for?

Questions 161–180
  1. Which routine do I abandon first when I am very busy?

  2. What makes me feel most alive?

  3. What would I make for a meal meant only to comfort myself?

  4. What do I need to hear more often?

  5. How do I tend to react when someone remembers a detail about me?

  6. What's my biggest insecurity about us?

  7. Which task would I happily spend an extra hour perfecting?

  8. What do I find beautiful that others might not?

  9. What would I want to know before agreeing to a weekend away?

  10. How do I show love when I'm bad at saying it?

  11. Which part of our home would I change if it could happen instantly?

  12. What do I want from the next few years?

  13. What makes me feel most welcome when I arrive somewhere?

  14. What was my favorite childhood toy?

  15. Which past version of myself would find my current life surprising?

  16. What's my favorite song of all time?

  17. What would I like to be able to do without needing instructions?

  18. What's my guilty pleasure TV show?

  19. Which word would I choose to describe a restful Sunday?

  20. What would I do with a free day, no obligations?

Questions 181–200
  1. What do I look for when choosing a present for someone?

  2. What's my coffee or tea order, exactly?

  3. Which kind of public praise makes me uncomfortable?

  4. Who was my best friend growing up?

  5. What would I do with an unexpected voucher for an art shop?

  6. What was the first concert I went to?

  7. Which detail of our first few conversations would I remember?

  8. What's my go-to karaoke song?

  9. What would I want to celebrate even if nobody else considered it a milestone?

  10. What's the last book I finished?

  11. Which personal project would I restart if I had a free week?

  12. What time do I actually fall asleep?

  13. What do I usually need before I can make a difficult decision?

  14. Which chore do I hate most?

  15. Which of our shared belongings do I have the strongest opinion about?

  16. What would I save from a fire?

  17. What kind of message makes me feel included when we are apart?

  18. What's my favourite season?

  19. Which task would I choose to trade with you for one day?

  20. What's my most-used app?

Questions 201–220
  1. What is my preferred way to mark the end of a journey?

  2. What's my favourite thing about you?

  3. Which topic could make me forget to check the time?

  4. What's the nickname I secretly like?

  5. What would I put in a box labeled only for a bad day?

  6. What's my favourite memory of us?

  7. Which tiny habit tells you I am getting sleepy?

  8. What makes me laugh every single time?

  9. What would I like to teach a younger person one day?

  10. What's the compliment I most want to hear?

  11. Which new experience would I want you beside me for?

  12. How do I take criticism?

  13. What would I change about the pace of my mornings?

  14. What's my dream job if money didn't matter?

  15. Which part of my current life am I quietly proud of?

  16. What would I change about myself?

  17. What would I want us to remember about this season of our lives?

  18. What's my worst holiday memory?

  19. Which answer about me do you think has changed since we first met?

  20. What's the one thing you're sure I'd get wrong about you?

A little permission to take it slowly.

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