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Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Get curious about your boyfriend's memories, dreams and small everyday joys. Share your own answer so it feels like a conversation.
Take turns answering; ask a follow-up when something catches your curiosity.
How to play
- Read one prompt aloud, or share this page alongside your usual call.
- Take turns answering. Ask one follow-up before moving on.
- Skip anything that does not fit the mood. A good conversation can be your last round.
What is something you have been building toward that I could understand better?
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All 60 questions
Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.
Questions 1–20
What is something you have been building toward that I could understand better?
What did you think after our first conversation?
Which part of your week makes you feel most capable?
What's the most important lesson your family taught you?
What do you enjoy talking about when nobody expects you to be the expert?
What's your love language and do you feel it's being met?
Which friend sees a side of you that you would like me to know?
What's a goal you're working toward right now?
What is a small comfort you would like me to remember?
What's your earliest happy memory?
When do you feel most relaxed about not having an answer?
What's the hardest thing you've overcome?
Which childhood interest still makes you enthusiastic?
What does your dream life look like?
What would you like me to notice about the effort behind your work?
What's the best day you've had in the last year?
Which kind of support helps you try again after a frustrating day?
What's something you're good at that never comes up?
What would a date built around your current curiosity include?
What's a compliment that stuck with you?
Questions 21–40
Which responsibility do you wish people would not automatically assign you?
What's something you've wanted to say to me but haven't found the moment for?
What is something you enjoy doing slowly?
What do you do when you're upset and don't want to talk?
Which personal change have you made without making an announcement?
What's something you'd do if you weren't worried about looking stupid?
What would you like us to learn from each other's different routines?
What part of your day is actually yours?
Which compliment about your character feels especially meaningful?
What would you want to be remembered for?
What would you put in a weekend with no need to impress anyone?
What were you like at sixteen?
Which part of your life would you like to protect from becoming all about productivity?
What's the most alive you've ever felt?
What makes it easier to tell me when you are uncertain?
What's something you want to get better at?
Which ordinary memory with me has become more important over time?
When did you last ask someone for help?
What would you like a future version of yourself to keep enjoying?
What do you find hardest to say out loud?
Questions 41–60
Which small kindness do you like offering without being asked?
What are you carrying right now that I don't know about?
What helps you feel welcomed into a place that is unfamiliar?
What's something you're proud of that you'd never bring up yourself?
Which task would be more fun if I joined you without taking over?
What's a fear you've never mentioned?
What do you want to be asked about beyond how work is going?
What's the closest you've come to giving up on something?
Which expectation of being a boyfriend feels unhelpful to you?
What's a habit you'd like to break?
What is a way you like showing affection that I might overlook?
When do you feel most connected to me?
Which plan would make you feel that I know your interests well?
What's the hardest part of the life you're living right now?
What would you like more permission to change your mind about?
What's a promise you'd want us to make?
Which question could help me understand the way you recharge?
What's something you'd only admit at 2am?
What is one ordinary thing you want us to experience together soon?
What question have you been hoping I'd ask?
A little permission to take it slowly.
Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.