Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

What have you wanted more room to explore on your own terms?

What's the nicest thing someone has ever done for you?

Which part of your day would you choose to share with me if we had extra time?

When do you feel most beautiful?

What makes you feel that your opinion is being taken seriously?

What does a perfect day with me look like?

Which interest would you like a date to be organized around?

What's something that always cheers you up?

What is something you have outgrown but people still associate with you?

What's a childhood dream you still think about?

Which small boundary has made your life easier?

How do you know when you truly trust someone?

What do you enjoy choosing entirely for yourself?

What's a place that feels magical to you?

Which moment recently made you feel visible in a good way?

What's the best compliment you've ever been given?

What would help you tell me a story without having to shorten it?

What's a song that always gets you?

Which ordinary object reflects your taste particularly well?

What's something you find funny that nobody else does?

What is something you would like us to discover without a fixed goal?

What are you better at than you give yourself credit for?

Which expectation would you like to put down for a weekend?

Who do you go to when something goes wrong, and why them?

What kind of attention makes a celebration feel personal to you?

What does a perfect ordinary Tuesday look like to you?

Which part of your past would you enjoy showing me through a place?

What part of your day do you look forward to most?

What is an opinion you have become more comfortable expressing?

What's something you'd love to do together that we never have?

Which kind of help would you prefer I offer rather than assume?

What was your first impression of me? Was it right?

What would make an invitation feel thoughtfully chosen for you?

What kind of tired are you most of the time?

Which activity brings out a playful side people do not always see?

What do you do when you need to feel like yourself again?

What have you been making space for, even in small ways?

What's something you're still figuring out?

Which conversation are you glad you did not avoid?

What's a rule you grew up with that you've since dropped?

What would you want me to ask before planning a surprise for you?

What's a fear you've mostly outgrown?

Which of your own decisions are you proud of trusting?

What's something you love that you're a little embarrassed about?

What kind of rest do you wish people understood better?

What's a friendship that shaped who you are?

Which small shared ritual would feel like a welcome addition?

What's a version of your life you sometimes imagine?

What would you like us to notice about this season before it passes?

What makes you feel safe with someone?

Which ambition feels more interesting than it feels easy?

What do you think I underestimate about you?

What would make you feel accompanied without feeling managed?

What does being loved well look like to you?

Which place would you like to visit with time to linger?

What do you hope is true about us in ten years?

What is a question you enjoy answering differently as you change?

What would you want me to say if you were having a terrible day?

What could I understand more clearly about the way you want to be loved now?

What question have you been waiting for me to ask?