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Questions to Ask Your Spouse
Check in with your spouse beyond schedules and chores. Notice what has changed, what feels good and what deserves a little attention.
Take turns answering; ask a follow-up when something catches your curiosity.
How to play
- Read one prompt aloud, or share this page alongside your usual call.
- Take turns answering. Ask one follow-up before moving on.
- Skip anything that does not fit the mood. A good conversation can be your last round.
What has changed for you lately that our usual conversations have not caught up with?
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KEEP A FAVORITE FOR ANOTHER EVENING
All 40 questions
Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.
Questions 1–20
What has changed for you lately that our usual conversations have not caught up with?
What's a version of me you miss, if any?
Which part of our everyday life feels especially supportive right now?
What's a quiet worry you've been carrying lately?
What would you like me to stop assuming I already know about you?
What's a way I've grown that I probably haven't noticed in myself?
Which personal achievement would you like a little more room to celebrate?
What do you want less of?
What has been taking effort behind the scenes this week?
What part feels like it's running us instead of us running it?
Which shared routine would you like to enjoy more slowly?
What's something you haven't told me because it didn't feel 'big enough' to bring up?
What do you want company for that you have been handling alone?
What's a frustration you haven't put into words yet?
Which small part of your day would you like me to ask about?
When did you feel most distant?
What is something new you have noticed about the way we solve problems?
If you could plan our next weekend without telling me, what would we do?
Which expectation of yourself feels heavier than it used to?
What's the hardest part of our life right now?
Questions 21–40
What would help this week feel more manageable as a pair?
What's a dream you've added since then that I might not know about?
Which interest of yours would you like to bring into our shared time?
What's the kindest thing you've watched me do recently?
What does being appreciated look like to you this month?
How's your relationship with your own body lately, honestly?
Which decision are you still processing even though it appears settled?
How's your relationship with your family feeling these days?
What would you enjoy doing together without turning it into a project?
What's a moment you'd edit if you could?
Which moment recently made you feel that we understand each other well?
What's a secret skill of yours I probably take for granted?
What is a responsibility you would like us to redistribute temporarily?
What's something you'd want to be better at, as my spouse?
Which question would help me understand your current ambitions?
What's the best piece of marriage advice we've ever gotten?
What do you want us to make easier for our future selves?
If we wrote each other a letter tonight, what would yours say?
Which little act of care could we bring back into an ordinary day?
What's one thing you're certain about us that I sometimes doubt?
A little permission to take it slowly.
Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.