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Questions to Ask Your Wife
Make room for your wife's own stories, changing dreams and small wishes. Choose a question when you can actually listen to the answer.
Take turns answering; ask a follow-up when something catches your curiosity.
How to play
- Read one prompt aloud, or share this page alongside your usual call.
- Take turns answering. Ask one follow-up before moving on.
- Skip anything that does not fit the mood. A good conversation can be your last round.
Which part of your life would you like us to be more curious about together?
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All 60 questions
Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.
Questions 1–20
Which part of your life would you like us to be more curious about together?
When was the last time you felt truly appreciated?
What is something you have decided you no longer need to justify?
How can I be a better husband this week?
Which personal wish keeps getting pushed behind more urgent plans?
What does your ideal weekend look like?
What makes a conversation feel like there is room for your whole answer?
When do you feel most beautiful?
Which ordinary moment in our marriage would you give a little more space?
What's something I said that you'll never forget?
What would you like to choose purely because it suits you?
What's one way I surprised you this year?
Which part of your week would you like me to understand before offering help?
What's something you want to experience before we're old?
What is a compliment you would like to hear about who you are becoming?
What part of your day actually belongs to you?
Which assumption about married life have you quietly revised?
What did you give up that you never talk about?
What would help you feel accompanied in a project that remains your own?
What do you need when you're overwhelmed that I keep getting wrong?
Questions 21–40
Which part of our shared history do you now see differently?
What do you wish I noticed without being told?
What is something you enjoy that deserves less explanation and more time?
What did you imagine marriage would be, before we married?
Which practical decision would you like to approach with a fresh agreement?
What do you put up with that you shouldn't have to?
What does being listened to look like when you have not sorted out your thoughts yet?
What's a fear about our future you've never said out loud?
Which object or place would tell a story about a chapter of your life I missed?
And what's the best thing about it?
What would you like a day without other people's expectations to include?
What does being cherished actually look like for you?
Which boundary has helped you feel more generous with your energy?
What do I do that makes you feel safe?
What have you been noticing about the kind of support you need now?
What have you forgiven me for without ever mentioning it?
Which of your strengths do people use without always acknowledging it?
What's a dream you set down that we could pick back up?
What would make a small celebration feel unmistakably yours?
What's a place you want us to see before we're too old for it?
Questions 41–60
Which part of our home would you redesign around how we actually live?
What did your mother get right? What would you do differently?
What is a topic you would like us to discuss before it becomes urgent?
What's the best decision we ever made together?
Which moment recently reminded you of the friendship inside our marriage?
What do you want to be better at?
What would you like me to stop trying to make efficient?
What makes you feel wanted?
Which interest would you enjoy sharing with someone who simply wants to listen?
What's the last thing that made you laugh properly?
What do you want your next year to make room for besides responsibilities?
What tradition would you love us to start?
Which detail of your current days should we remember later?
What would you do for yourself if you gave yourself permission?
What would make it easier to tell me you want something different?
What have you been wanting to tell me that the moment never comes for?
Which kind of affection feels most welcome in this season?
What do you think I underestimate about you?
What is one way we could make an ordinary day feel more chosen together?
What makes you choose this on the hard days?
A little permission to take it slowly.
Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.