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Love Map Questions for Couples
Learn the small details of your partner's inner world: current worries, favorite comforts, important people and changing dreams.
Guess, then ask your partner; their answer may have changed.
How to play
- Read a prompt about your partner's world.
- Make a guess, then listen to your partner’s answer.
- Ask what has changed and swap who answers next.
What is one small thing your partner is currently waiting to hear back about?
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All 55 questions
Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.
Questions 1–20
What is one small thing your partner is currently waiting to hear back about?
What is one of your partner's biggest sources of stress at the moment?
Which part of your partner's week has the most uncertainty right now?
What is one of your partner's current life dreams?
Who has recently made your partner feel encouraged?
What is one thing your partner is quietly proud of?
What is one practical task your partner has been putting off this month?
What is your partner's favorite music or artist right now?
Which place has your partner wanted to return to lately?
What is one thing your partner would love to change about their life this year?
What new interest has been appearing in your partner's conversations?
What does your partner do to unwind after a stressful day?
Which upcoming event might your partner need quiet time after?
Who is someone your partner admires, and why?
What is one detail that makes your partner's current workspace easier to use?
Name your partner's biggest rival or irritation at work.
Who would your partner like to catch up with but has not arranged it yet?
Name three people your partner would call good friends.
What is a recent decision your partner felt relieved to make?
Which relative does your partner find hardest to deal with?
Questions 21–40
Which personal routine is your partner trying to protect right now?
Name a recurring dream or nightmare your partner has.
Which invitation is your partner still deciding whether to accept?
What is your partner's most treasured possession?
Which little inconvenience has been recurring in your partner's days?
What is one of your partner's unfulfilled ambitions?
What is a small purchase your partner is considering, and why?
Name a life event that changed your partner's direction.
Who does your partner turn to for a particular kind of perspective?
What is your partner's ideal holiday, in detail?
Which upcoming responsibility matters to your partner more than it might appear?
What is a fear your partner has carried since childhood?
What kind of rest has your partner been needing this week?
Name something your partner is quietly proud of.
Which piece of unfinished work keeps returning to your partner's thoughts?
What was the hardest year of your partner's life?
What would your partner like more time to practice or learn currently?
Name your partner's favourite way to be shown affection.
Which recent compliment meant something to your partner?
What is your partner's relationship with their siblings like?
Questions 41–55
What is one thing your partner hopes will feel simpler next month?
What does your partner find genuinely funny?
Which person in your partner's life is going through a change they care about?
Name something your partner has changed their mind about recently.
What is a small event your partner is quietly looking forward to?
Who from your partner's past still influences them?
Which practical support would be most useful to your partner this week?
Name your partner's most important goal this year.
What is something your partner wants to do independently soon?
What is your partner's idea of a perfect ordinary day?
Which current concern has your partner not yet decided how to explain?
What is one thing your partner wishes you understood better?
What part of your partner's daily surroundings has changed since you last noticed it?
What does your partner need from you this week, specifically?
Which answer about your partner's world should you ask rather than assume you still know?
A little permission to take it slowly.
Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.
These are informal conversation prompts. They do not diagnose an attachment style, assess your mental health or measure whether a relationship will succeed.