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Relationship Check-In Questions
Set aside a few calm minutes to notice what is working, what feels difficult and one small thing you can do for each other.
Take turns answering; ask a follow-up when something catches your curiosity.
How to play
- Read one prompt aloud, or share this page alongside your usual call.
- Take turns answering. Ask one follow-up before moving on.
- Skip anything that does not fit the mood. A good conversation can be your last round.
Which moment this week made teamwork feel easy?
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KEEP A FAVORITE FOR ANOTHER EVENING
All 55 questions
Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.
Questions 1–20
Which moment this week made teamwork feel easy?
What's one thing I did this week that you appreciated?
Where did we rely on an assumption instead of checking with each other?
Did anything happen this week that hurt your feelings?
What used more of your energy than I realized?
How are you feeling about us right now, honestly?
Which small agreement helped us recently?
What's one highlight from our week together?
What would you like more notice about next week?
What's one thing you're looking forward to doing together?
Where did our plans leave too little room for rest?
Is there a topic we've been avoiding?
Which kind of support landed well this week?
How's our balance of quality time vs. personal space?
What practical task should we redistribute for a few days?
What drained you most this week?
When did you feel listened to without being hurried?
Did you feel supported by me? Where specifically?
Which little frustration is worth addressing before it grows?
What's something you needed and didn't ask for?
Questions 21–40
What did we handle more kindly than we might have before?
What are you dreading next week?
Where would a clearer request help us both?
Is there anything unresolved between us from this week?
Which personal goal needs some protected time next week?
What's one thing we should do differently next week?
What is one thing we can stop doing out of habit?
Do you feel like we had enough time together this week?
When did we make space for fun without a big plan?
What's one practical thing I could take off your plate?
Which decision is still open even though we keep treating it as settled?
Is anything worrying you about money?
What would help our greetings feel less distracted?
How are you feeling about your work right now?
Where did one person's effort become invisible?
Did anything I said land badly?
Which upcoming commitment deserves a second look?
What do you need less of?
What do you want me to understand before I suggest a solution?
Is there a conversation we keep postponing?
Questions 41–55
Which small repair from a recent disagreement is still needed?
What made you laugh this week?
What was a pleasant surprise in how we spent time together?
What should we say no to?
Where can we simplify rather than try harder?
Is there anything you're avoiding telling me?
Which boundary helped you be more present with me?
How did we do at splitting things fairly this week?
What would make tomorrow morning easier for both of us?
Do you feel appreciated?
Which appreciation have you not had a chance to say yet?
Is there anything you want to apologise for?
What is one adjustment we can try and review next week?
What are you grateful for about us this week?
What should we leave this conversation feeling clearer about?
A little permission to take it slowly.
Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.
These are informal conversation prompts. They do not diagnose an attachment style, assess your mental health or measure whether a relationship will succeed.