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Speed Dating Questions for Couples

Take your partner on a quick getting-to-know-you date. Keep answers short, then slow down on anything interesting.

Give your first answer, then swap; linger when you both want to.

How to play
  1. Read one prompt aloud, or share this page alongside your usual call.
  2. Take turns answering. Ask one follow-up before moving on.
  3. Skip anything that does not fit the mood. A good conversation can be your last round.
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Your ideal date starts at what time?

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KEEP A FAVORITE FOR ANOTHER EVENING

All 59 questions

Browse at your own pace, or explore the cards above. Pick what fits the two of you today.

Questions 1–20
  1. Your ideal date starts at what time?

  2. Our best trip together?

  3. Which dessert would you split with me tonight?

  4. My most annoying habit?

  5. What color would you give our first impression?

  6. What I'm most grateful for about you?

  7. What is your go-to question when a conversation stalls?

  8. My comfort food?

  9. Which part of a menu do you read first?

  10. What first attracted me to you?

  11. One free hour together: where do we go?

  12. Our song?

  13. What weather makes you want to arrange a date?

  14. My hidden talent?

  15. Which song title could describe your mood right now?

  16. First word that describes me? Go!

  17. What would you order for me based on this conversation?

  18. My worst habit? Quick!

  19. A date invitation by voice note or handwritten card?

  20. Where should we go next? Fast!

Questions 21–40
  1. Which hobby could you explain to me in one sentence?

  2. Best thing about us? Go!

  3. What is the most appealing thing about this room?

  4. Song that's ours? 3 seconds!

  5. What would you like to know before picking our next meeting place?

  6. Your favourite photo of us?

  7. Which word do you use too much when excited?

  8. Best gift I've given you? Fast!

  9. What kind of joke usually wins you over?

  10. Favourite thing we do on a Sunday?

  11. What is your preferred way to say a date went well?

  12. Something you want more of? Quick!

  13. Where would you take me for a ten-minute walk?

  14. Best holiday we've taken? Go!

  15. What is a good last question before we say goodbye?

  16. One word for last year?

  17. Which small detail makes a table feel welcoming?

  18. Your favourite thing about my family?

  19. What is your first move when you arrive early?

  20. Who'd survive longer alone? Quick!

Questions 41–59
  1. What would make you extend a coffee date?

  2. Your dream house: city or country? Go!

  3. Which fictional neighborhood would suit a first date?

  4. What are we having for dinner? 3 seconds!

  5. What is the easiest food to talk over?

  6. Favourite season with me? Go!

  7. What would you put in a one-line introduction for yourself?

  8. Best decision we've made? Go!

  9. What everyday skill would you offer to teach me?

  10. Your favourite thing about tonight?

  11. What is a charming way for someone to admit being nervous?

  12. The first thing you noticed about me?

  13. Which kind of date deserves comfortable shoes?

  14. Something you want to do this month? Go!

  15. What would we call a second date planned in five minutes?

  16. Who's more likely to cry at a film?

  17. What is the nicest reason you have lost track of time?

  18. Your favourite memory of us? Fast!

  19. What one detail from this round will you remember?

A little permission to take it slowly.

Choose one question when you have time to listen. There is no need to get through the whole collection.